False Ego In Today’s Youth Studying in Private (School, College and University)

False Ego In Today’s Youth Studying in Private (School, College and University)

In Maslow’s theory of Hierarchy, Ego ( Esteem) needs is the fourth needs which an Human wants to achieve after satisfying all the three needs.

At present, if we look towards the youth who are studying in private (school, college, University) we can see they have a huge ego (self – esteem) problem in the starting age (generally age of 14-24). In this in actual student should be in Physiological need.

I have presented this article by analysing various students and I have taken the model of Maslow’s theory of Hierarchy. The students sample is taken from my experiences (teaching in private college). By analyzing them, the students have problem of ego because of two reason.

 First thing is Our  parents  generally after earning money they have reach to the esteem needs , almost all parents are in the age of 45-50.  Parents who are investing 4-6 lakhs to their child have a good purchasing capacity. Due to the ego need of parents, the belief is being transfer to the child by the behavior and words of the parents. Example some words which the parents speak in front of the child are, Parents open the history (past economic condition) of their relatives, friends, teacher in front of their children. Due to which students have problem of ego because they thing they are quite strong in financial matter. They learn to dominant other from their parents.

     

     Second thing is Our parents have all most provided all the three needs  (Physiological, safety, social need) to the present generation. So automatically as per the theory of Maslows, today’s youth directly reached to the fourth stage, i.e they are in the ego needs.

     Third thing is student are engaged in making gf/bf/affairs more.As we know in Physiological need,Food Cloths,shelter...sex , Come.Almost parents after earning has provided/given ,food cloth ,shelter but still due to our religion ,Sex is restricted . So in Student life student are back of it. 

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Conclusion:-

The Increase/rise in purchasing capacity of parents and lack of spiritual education  have leads to the development false ego in the present youth.

By:-

Krishna Raj Bhatta

2017-22-20  at 9:30 pm

Dhangadhi- Kailali.